How to set up Snapchat safely
Snapchat is for photos, video and chat — many messages disappear, but you can still review contacts and habits together. Family Center is Snapchat’s own parent tool. It does not replace conversation — but gives you something concrete to talk from.
In short
Invite yourself to Family Center from your child’s phone, review friends and chat partners, turn on Ghost Mode on Snap Map, and lock purchases in the App Store or Google Play. Family Center does not show message contents. Use the chat partner list to ask: «Who is that, and do you know them?»
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Set up Family Center
On your child’s phone: Profile → Settings → Family Center → Invite parent. You get an email invitation and accept it in your own Snapchat app. You need your own Snapchat account. Create one if you do not have one — it takes a few minutes.
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Review friends and chats
In Family Center you can see who they chatted with in the last seven days — not the content. Talk about who is a friend and whether any contacts are strangers offline. Streaks and scores are social habits — ask whether they feel pressuring.
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Limit Snap Map
Location is only shared with friends your child accepts — but Ghost Mode is the safest choice. See our Snap Map guide for step-by-step help. In Family Center you can see whether location is shared. Agree they do not share live location without talking to you first.
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Teen settings and contact
Teen accounts are set to receive contact mainly from friends and phone contacts. Review Settings → Privacy and check who can contact them, send friend requests and view stories. Check again after updates — Snapchat changes settings from time to time.
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Purchases and Snapchat+
Snapchat+ and in-app purchases are billed through the App Store or Google Play. Use Ask to Buy, Family Link or Screen Time — Snapchat has no own spending cap. Remove saved payment cards in the store if present. Gift cards can bypass store limits.
Want to understand how Snapchat works? Try the App & Game Decoder. For harassment or images shared without consent: SletDet at Save the Children Denmark. Save screenshots of harassment if your child wants to report it.
Related checks
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Privacy Exposure Checker
Review what personal information may be visible or easy to piece together online.
Parental Control Checker
See whether parental controls are set up and working as expected.
Is the message or offer a scam?
Your child got something odd — a link, an offer or a request. We guide you through the assessment.
More help in Denmark
If you need someone to talk to, use these — they are free, and they take parents and children.
- SletDet counselling 29 27 01 01
Save the Children’s free counselling in Denmark for children, young people and parents facing bullying, image sharing, hacking and other harmful experiences online. Call 29 27 01 01. You do not need everything sorted before you call.
- Digital sexual offences
The Danish police explain grooming and how to report if a child is pressured or threatened online. Read the guidance before confronting the other party.
- Parents’ Helpline 35 55 55 57
Børns Vilkår. Free, anonymous counselling for parents and relatives in Denmark on 35 55 55 57. They take calls about screens, conflict and online problems.
- Media Council for Children and Young People
Public guidance in Denmark on children, young people and digital media. Advice on age, content and parent conversations — without sales language.
Sources
Snapchat Support
What is Family Center?Snapchat Support
How do I turn on Ghost Mode?SletDet counselling
SletDet counsellingDigital sexual offences
Digital sexual offencesParents’ Helpline
Parents’ HelplineMedia Council for Children and Young People
Media Council for Children and Young People